By Jeenie Gordon:
He was in his late 20s, good-looking enough to be a movie star. Intelligent, with a vibrant personality, he could capture a heart in a minute—but his world fell apart.
Aaron stumbled into my counseling office, and tears cascaded down his sculptured face like a giant waterfall. Slumping on the sofa, between sobs, he told me his story of pain. I listened carefully.
Married a few short years to his beautiful dream girl, he thought life was blissful—until today.
“Angela wants out of our marriage. Her bags are packed, and she is ready to walk out of the door and out of my life forever.”
“I’m so sorry to hear that, Aaron. Tell me what happened.”
“Angela was swept off her feet by an older, married man at work. The more she spoke of his amazing attributes, the more my heart disintegrated. That’s why I decided to seek counseling.”
During the next few weeks, I was supportive and caring toward this broken man. Returning home late one evening, I had numerous messages from him.
“Jeenie, I need you. Please pick up. Jeenie, I can’t stand the pain, and I’m going to end it.”
With a loaded gun and a broken heart, he called for help. My heart was nearly beating out of my chest as I dialed his number.
“Please, God,” I prayed. “Let him still be alive.”
Thankfully, he answered, and I was able to talk him through the night, preventing his suicide.
Years later, Aaron remarried a wonderful Christian woman, had children, and today is involved in ministry to others in despair.
Not all stories turn out as well as Aaron’s. The dark well of emotion surrounds many people in marital trauma as they sink into a pit of deep muck, unable to climb out. Often they do not possess enough strength to grab onto a lifesaving hope of suicide prevention.
You can search a directory of Christian counselors through the National Christian Counselors Association at http://www.ncca.org/Directory/. Even though suicidal people need professional help, do not underestimate the listening ears, encouraging words, and love of family and friends for they may also help in suicide prevention.
This excerpt was taken from Too Soon to Say Goodbye: Healing and Hope for Suicide Victims and Survivors and used with permission by New Hope Publishers.